Looking to Exit? How to Smooth Out the Sale Process
Key Highlights
- Start earlier than feels necessary: Begin exit planning two to three years ahead to work through priorities before the deal whirlwind starts.
- Build the right bench: Beyond your attorney/accountant and key executives, bring in specialists like a transaction tax expert, industry investment banker, and personal wealth advisor.
- Manage the human factor: Expect emotion and friction. Get clear on non-negotiables early.
- Protect operations and stay flexible: Keep confidentiality tight so the business runs normally, and be ready for curveballs.
After a few false starts since the post-pandemic snapback, the M&A market has revved up this year and 2026 is expected to deliver more growth. A key player in those expectations is that potential buyers have processed most of the confusion around tariffs and tax changes and are ready to execute longer-term plans.
David Stahl, a partner at Plante Moran Wealth Management in the Detroit area, says interest is also growing among potential sellers. Many entrepreneurs and operators of family-owned businesses are nearing their retirement age, he said, and have seen peers cash out in recent years — some at particularly tasty valuations during the 2020-22 deal flurry.
Add to those dynamics an element of “one thing after another” over the past decade — two rounds of tariffs, a global pandemic followed by a supply-chain mess, and severe inflation pressures — and it’s hard to fault longtime business owners for saying it’s time to sell.
So, how to go about making the process as smooth as possible? Here are a few items Stahl says to keep in mind.
Give yourself time
There are no shortcuts to building a sound plan that delivers peace of mind. And setting up that plan involves both practical steps as well as some soul-searching about key questions. What type of buyers are you OK with? Are you willing to stick around for a transition period? Who might take on your day-to-day duties, and how might you incentivize them? What’s your preferred timeline? And, of course, what’s the dollar figure you’re looking to take home?
Those are weighty topics to chew on before it’s even time to start addressing practical tasks. And sellers shouldn’t rush through them.
“Two to three years ahead of time is not too early,” Stahl said. “It takes longer than most people think.”
Rally your team
As you proceed to the brass-tacks phase of exit planning, it’s time to assemble a group of advisors. That naturally includes your accountant, attorney and key members of your C-suite who will need to be part of the process.
But Stahl said it’s key to also bring on external partners. A transaction tax expert, for instance, can minimize the cut Uncle Sam might want from a deal. Industry-expert investment bankers can better position your company in the market even if you have a solid handle about who likely buyers could be. And a personal wealth advisor can craft the best strategies for flowing business proceeds onto your personal balance sheet.
The upshot is this: Many buyers today are more sophisticated than in the past and follow a process they like to repeat time and again. For most sellers, this is a new experience. They know their business, but good advisors know who to sell a business and handle what follows. Stahl said it’s important to lock down important parts of a plan before going to market. Once the calls, meetings and negotiations start, he added, there is little time for other things and no time to properly catch up.
Get emotional
There’s no avoiding emotion on this journey. Most business owners have given blood, sweat and tears to fashion their enterprises in their image and preparing to say goodbye to their passion and the teams they’ve assembled over time can be tough.
Reading list
For more on how to plan for selling your business, check out these resources:
From the U.S. Chamber of Commerce: Eight steps to preparing your business for sale
From They Got Acquired: How to prepare your personal finances before selling your company
From AllianceBernstein: One number every business owner needs to know
“There are emotional aspects to this and they don’t tend to go away” during a sale, Stahl said. “The complexity continues to grow and it’s not just financial or tax-related. There are family dynamics and values to consider.”
For instance, Stahl said, some owners can struggle with the idea of passing on parts of a sale’s proceeds to their children even if that brings with it tax advantages. Or consider the scenario where an owner decides to place certain interests of the business — its real estate holdings, for instance — in a trust to avoid steep estate taxes. There’s both a finality to that and the fact that a valuation of those assets will produce a discounted value because that stake won’t have voting rights.
Things don’t get easier as the process moves forward. Stahl said receiving a letter of intent from a possible buyer can be rough for sellers, both because it suddenly makes things even more “real” and because it’s likely to be a number the seller may take some exception to.
“Plus, pretty much the only thing that happens from there is the buyer beating it up,” Stahl said of that first set of terms.
All the more reason for sellers to work through their non-negotiables and priorities well ahead of time and to lean on the teams they’ve assembled to contribute calmer perspectives.
Watch the chitter chatter
It’s an evident point, but one worth reinforcing: While you’re building your plan to sell and as you go to market, keep your cards close to your vest to avoid potential disruptions. Set clear rules and parameters with your advisors and key executives regarding communication, such as an “eyes-only” policy that limits emails and letters, since others in your organization may be part of processes that handle them. And think ahead about where to meet with advisors and representatives of potential buyers; parading a bunch of suits through your offices or plants will naturally set tongues wagging and cause time-sucking distractions.
In short: Things need to look like business as usual until you’re ready to more broadly announce news.
Be prepared for changes
Even putative sellers who have put in the time to set up a great plan should expect curveballs as the sale process starts to progress. Stahl said those who have things 80% buttoned up have done “an amazing job.” The reality is that any plan uses a basket of assumptions — about deal structure, valuations, a timeline and more — that will run headlong into the reality of offers, counters, negotiations and other factors.
That’s why it’s important to remain grounded in your plan’s personal and professional priorities while acknowledging that you’ll need to rework some things or altogether give up other elements. For instance, Stahl said, a prospective buyer could emerge as a great fit for your organization’s team but ask for a greater share of sale proceeds to fall under earnout provisions than you had planned for. Or a bidder hits your financial target but wants you to stick around longer than you might like to guide the transition.
In this part of the process — and really, at every step along the way in selling a business — Stahl said it’s important for owners to remain true to the passion and knowledge that helped them grow their organizations in the first place. At the same time, they also need to rely on their long-term vision and the care for people who helped build the business that helped them reach this landmark. As with so many things, getting that balance right will best serve the greatest number of people over the long run.
About the Author

Geert De Lombaerde
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A native of Belgium, Geert De Lombaerde joined EndeavorB2B in September 2021 to cover public companies, markets, and economic trends primarily for IndustryWeek, FleetOwner, Oil & Gas Journal, T&D World, and Healthcare Innovation. His work focuses on strategy, leadership, capital spending, and mergers and acquisitions, and he also works with Endeavor Business Intelligence on surveys and data projects.
Geert has been in business journalism since the mid-1990s. With a degree in journalism from the University of Missouri, he began his reporting career at the Business Courier in Cincinnati, initially covering retail and the courts before shifting to banking, insurance, and investing. He later was managing editor and editor of the Nashville Business Journal before being named editor of the Nashville Post in 2008. He led a team that helped grow the Post's online traffic by an average of more than 15% annually before joining Endeavor.
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